Blog Post

CHRIST, THE FORGIVER

Cara Buckley • August 4, 2014

Matthew 6:14-15 Christ: “If you forgive those who sinned against you, your heavenly Father will forgive you. But if you refuse to forgive other, your Father will not forgive your sins.” (NLT)

There are several more like it. It is a running theme in the Bible. You MUST forgive others if you have any hope to find forgiveness from God. Period. Not only is it a necessity in the faith, but also a necessity in a person’s way of being. I have seen first-hand what the refusal to forgive does to one’s mind. In fact, I struggled with it myself.




  • It consumes the mind like a cancer.
  • It creates unhealthy obsession.
  • It creates unnecessary mistrust.
  • It causes physical and emotion pain.
  • It destroys relationships.
  • It makes a person toxic and ugly.
  • Above all, it hinders one’s faith.

Forgiveness sets you free. I can personally attest that my choice to embrace forgiveness was difficult, but it was also the best thing I ever did for myself. Looking back to that dark area in my life, I realize just how trapped and unhappy I was. Forgiveness set me free. It allowed me to move forward in my life.

I know it is hard. Believe me, I know, but it doesn’t matter what the situation is. Forgiveness is vital. Every time, I find myself struggling, I remind myself of one thing.

Christ cries to God from his place on the cross:

Luke 23:34: “Father, forgive them, for they don’t know what they are doing.” (NLT)

Christ was willing to look down at the people who put him up on the cross and beg God to forgive them. He was willing to forgive the men who tortured and executed Him. He .is willing to forgive you. You owe it to Him and yourself to be willing to do the same.

By Cara Buckley February 13, 2024
"Cruella", is the second original Disney remake since the premiere of Maleficent. I'm a fan of empathetic villain stories. Not everything is as black and white as...
By Cara Buckley October 18, 2023
Now a beloved cult classic, "Death Becomes Her" follows the story of two competitive frienemies learning the very consequences of rushing their way to success. All for the purpose of...
By Cara Buckley September 7, 2023
The 90s version of “101 Dalmatians” explores the in-depth relationship between the highly narcissistic Cruella DeVil and “sweet, simple” Anita. While the live-action version displays...
More Posts
Share by: